​Who are you?

I wish to start by saying – I am this normal person. A normal woman sometimes tending to be a bit abnormal to the world out there. This is the case with all of us. We are normal in our own terms, just that every other being see the rest as abnormal if it doesn’t fit our definition of ‘normal’.  My story is that I love to cherish, love and empower people genuinely as much as I try for myself. Particularly woman. Because I am one and has felt how beautiful it is to be one, how difficult it is for us to be yet how easy it is for us to be.

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I have had my share of ups and downs in my physical, emotional, intellectual relations. Been broken, hurt, depressed, almost given up and done that to others also, though never! never deliberately. But more importantly I have gathered up from these bits, learned, become stronger beyond what I ever thought I’d see myself become and been very happy & grateful with the life God has gifted me with, the family, friends, education, career, courage, skills, love, compassion, these broken bits which gave the essence of actual life and whatever that remains.

I wish to start by saying – I am this normal person. A normal woman sometimes tending to be a bit abnormal to the world out there. This is the case with all of us. We are normal in our own terms, just that every other of us see others as abnormal if it doesn’t fit our definition of ‘normal’.  My story is that I love to cherish, love and empower people genuinely as much as I try for myself. Particularly woman. Because I am one and has felt how beautiful it is to be one, how difficult it is for us to be yet how easy it is for us to be.

I have had my share of ups and downs in my physical, emotional, intellectual relations. Been broken, hurt, depressed, almost given up and done that to others also, though never! never deliberately. But more importantly I have gathered up from these bits, learned, become stronger beyond what I ever thought I’d see myself become and been very happy & grateful with the life God has gifted me with, the family, friends, education, career, courage, skills, love, compassion, these broken bits which gave the essence of actual life and whatever that remains.

Going away from the comfort of home, the city I grew up, to Dubai to work was one of the best desire and blessings I have had. Of course, I miss my dad and mom terribly even if we visit each other in between. I have also, had most of my downs, terrible downs here. There were moments that weakened me, that told me I should get down to the standards of the world to survive. BUT I was pulled back. By Grace. These, but have been the iron molds of my life. Every positive was only further strengthened – the love within me, the compassion, courage; the realization that you need to fight evil and not just give in!

As simple as it sounds and easy it is to write. It is not easy in the real world. But how many times do we dwell on these same old lines and give ourselves up? Even if it sounds mediocre, with pleasure I get down to asking grace of God to see things as how they should be, and not blurred or of all, as somebody else’s vision of life.

I urge, to all, particularly women, to step out, of your box, the comfort box, travel across boundaries to savor new cultures and definitions if circumstances and blessings are with you (but do try to fight for it). To realize your own unknown strengths. To stand for yourself. To realize how far you could dream and get it!

Going away from the comfort of home, the city I grew up, to Dubai to work was one of the best desire and blessings I have had. Of course, I miss my dad and mom terribly even if we visit each other in between. I have also, had most of my downs, terrible downs here. There were moments that weakened me, that told me I should get down to the standards of the world to survive. BUT I was pulled back. By Grace. These, but have been the iron molds of my life. Every positive was only further strengthened – the love within me, the compassion, courage; the realization that you need to fight evil and not just give in!

As simple as it sounds and easy it is to write. It is not easy in the real world. But how many times do we dwell on these same old lines and give ourselves up? Even if it sounds mediocre, with pleasure I get down to asking grace of God to see things as how they should be, and not blurred or of all, as somebody else’s vision of life.

I urge, to all, particularly women, to step out, of your box, the comfort box, travel across boundaries to savor new cultures and definitions if circumstances and blessings are with you (but do try to fight for it). To realize your own unknown strengths. To stand for yourself. To realize how far you could dream and get it!

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